Boyfriend addicted to online dating sites

.very very few men online who are in their 40s and 50s get any younger.

Years ago, at 50, he had a classic midlife crisis (his words): new 'boy band' hairdo, jive lessons ( without me), going to the gym, trendy clothes, a second mobile - and online dating.

Dating should be a way to extend the possibilities of who you can meet, not replace going out and actually meeting them.

In my experience, having accounts on multiple sites was likely to bring up the exact same people, unless you choose sites with different focii might choose match, a veggie singles website, and an animal lovers website to diversify my options.

I needed access to his computer to take over the bills and thats when i discovered the dating and affair sites.

Should change your username to superman, markus, fulltime job, parttime job, kids few times a wk and talking/dating 3-5 women at once?

All this time im thinking things are going in the right direction and headed towards building a good relationshipuntil these past few days when i found out he is on dating sites claiming to be single and wanting to find his yin to his yang.

Men online may just be socially inept and not comfortable meeting a real woman offline.

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Advice sounds great, however i do not see why do men feel cheating is fine or date sites etc; war will not end us, my bet is on social media.

On top of all this he daily goes through my phone, email, and social media sites; accuses me of sneaking off during lunch to meet with boyfriends; accuses me of being in love with all my exes; and insists that i dress for work just to attract new men.

I do not know if he is still on the dating sites and viewing a lot of porn.

Have been married for 14 years, he has been acting weird latley so i decied to check his phone, and he is signed up to numerous online dating websites.

, ive long been an advocate for online dating, not because its perfect, but because it always created a love life for me.

Instead i told him i was going to get on some sites to meet some new friends, basically i was being sneaky.

It was an interesting take on things i am 6 months into my new marriage, recently discovered my husband has been on a sex dating site.

I wonder what your opinion is on domestic abuse and for that matter child porn, because these sites are full of these thing.

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Real upshot, barb, is that by understanding thisby being more open and forgiving of men, by keeping a positive attitude, by going on multiple sites, by persevering despite the frustrationyou give yourself a much greater chance of success than if you said, online dating is bullshit, men are bullshit, i quit.

I dont trust him in the cell phone/dating sites but i dont think he would cheat on me while were married.

Think where it becomes an addiction is with people that do not actually meet anyone in real life and use online dating to replace a real world social life.

When i confronted him he claimed he didnt realize it was a dating site, so i tried to save the marriage and forgave him.

The same cycle has continued, and now over a year later he is on dating websites as a single man, talking to other women.

I think people both men & women can get addicted to the emotional rollercoaster that being on an online dating site (or sites) can give them.

If men in their 40s & 50s are seeking women online in their 20s & 30s, because they can!

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I wouldnt say that i was addicted to it as, like evan has said, its not the goal.

Lance, i dont know how old you are but im 47 and where i live their are very few bars where people between the ages of 35-50(my dating bracket) hang out for me to do my approaches.

"often, people will put pictures on facebook that look a lot different from the online dating photo.

It made him mad, at me, b/c i found out that he had a dating site back in 2011-12, an so on?

He deleted the sites but this past week i saw more accounts linked to an email he claims not to use.

To online dating magazine, 20% of americans have gone out on a date with someone they met on line.

For many who are dissatisfied with the old-fashioned way of meeting new people, online dating has become an acceptable and popular alternative.

" if you prefer having control over your choices or know which qualities will or won't suit you, you might prefer sites that let you choose whom to contact.

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Its sad and beyond frustrating but online sites are a feeding ground for sociopaths just looking for another feed.

It was six years ago that my husband had the stroke and i found out about the dating sites.

Therapist terri orbuch says one of the advantages of online dating is it offers access to a large pool of people you can meet while staying comfortable in your own home.

I then told him i was deleting the site because its not a friends site, its a dating app.

He does think he has become addicted to online sites then he should seek counselling for himself, as well as couple counselling with you.

Just recently found out 4 days ago that my husband was on a couple of dating sites for locals to meet.

Usually men who are on the verge of bailing have already met someone, so you wont find them on an online dating site.

However, if you were watching my profile on jdate, youd have assumed that i was online from 1998-2006 without any success.

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Have just found on my husband computor he joined a sexy dating site chatting to woman saying sexual things he wanted to do to them and to arrange to meet one inpertiqular, i beleive this has not happened as i spoke to the girl, all i can say is i am heartbroken.

Acting on a hunch, i checked the dating site where we met, and there he was, smiling back at me.

Story is similar to suzy 11 yr relationship been on sites since the very beginning many fights over it every year in fact i finally left for a year and came back for many reason i promised m=not to check up on him to see if he is behaving and i didnt for about 8 months and life was wonderful then i just couldnt avoid the overwhelming gut feelings anymore so i checked not only is he on a site again hes on a site for $$ arrangements.

Now he tells me to f off n he out the front in his car this online flirting keeps going in and on, im working 2 jobs to support us, he hardly even trying to get a job.

I dont know, it feels like rewarding them for being bad, like a teen acting out, oh here, here is a new cell phone, what does that tell your mani think it tells him that he will be rewarded for his bad actions and when he gets tired of you doing what he wants and goes back to dating sites and porn, well then, heck, lets be even better in bed.

We eventually ended up back together but i noticed that he was still online when i went to delete my account.

; i liked your observation that in online dating you get to know people in reverse from when you meet them (first) in person.

Im certainly not addicted, and what kiboshes the addiction for me is the monthly cost of the subscription.

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-im finding it very hard to believe that its ok to go on dating sites when you are married.

Years ago, at 50, he had a classic midlife crisis (his words): new 'boy band' hairdo, jive lessons ( without me), going to the gym, trendy clothes, a second mobile - and online dating.

I have always tried to let him know we love and care about him, but after his latest of getting back on dating sites and not trying after he said he needed some space to try to find his good self again, doesnt seem to fit with his actions.

Clearly, if he were satisfied, he would not be looking (not always true, but usually) online.

This morning i discovered that my daughter saw they porn and dating sites on my husbands computer at some point in the past.

Two women i knew who were confident enough to admit to me that they did online dating, became quite into it to the point of addiction.

Might be too soon, but it might not be the reason for this online browsing.

All he has done is shown photos of deleting the dating sites, but he could possibly have a woman there at this deployed location and i wouldnt be the wiser.

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