Creating a plan on how to deal with the behaviors ensures that you are not feeding the symptoms of the disorder by ensuring you stay calm in the midst of an issue.
And if theres any condition that really drives this home, its borderline personality disorder (bpd), which takes the shittiest parts of being mentally unwell and runs a marathon with them.
Wish you the best, hell maybe she's not borderline but if she is don't be surprised when she leaves you out of the blue or starts ****ing your friends behind your back (be shocked if she hasn't already) you mean about as much to her as a toaster, and once she gets you to break she will replace you with a new model and no that model won't be better looking or better built than you, most bpd's actually downgrade in my experience.
Dating a girl with borderline personality disorder
The two disorders can co-exist, however, meaning that traits individual to each disorder occur or have occurred in the same individual.
Type of personality disorder where the person has literally no ability to feel any empathy or sympathy is scary though.
"my friend dated a girl with bpd - she was a total slut and she cheated on him all the time!
My son is dating a girl with borderline personality disorder
Bpd, knowledge is power, and if the person doesn't know that he has the disorder, and the people around him don't know it, they don't know why their loved one is acting that way.
Its the theme of so, so many songs sung byyouve guessed itwomen, from paramores (one of those) crazy girls to miranda lamberts crazy ex-girlfriend.
Think a lot of guys come to this forum because they have in one way or another dated a woman with a borderline.
Even i managed to read susanna kaysens memoir girl, interrupted (perhaps more commonly recognized in its 1999 winona ryder filmic reimagining) twice and didnt glean that it was ostensibly describing what i had.
Your partner is already being treated for another disorder and the disorder does not fully explain the parameters of her behavior, have the doctor explore the possibility that she could have bpd.
Is known as a misunderstood disorder because it often co-occurs with other disorders, such as "depression, bi-polar disorder, substance abuse, eating disorders, and anxiety disorders.
The scary part is if they're high functioning borderlines (like i'm assuming yours was) is that they actually have the ability to appear rational and quite normal at times so if they do contact you after the breakup (and they always do guys) you may find yourself getting reeled back in before you know it, hell i questioned my own sanity at that point.
The only good thing about borderlines (i can't believe i said that ) is that they usually will not cheat on you in the beginning of the relationship unlike most typical serial cheaters because she's too busy telling all her girlfriends and family how your the best thing that ever happened to her.
Ask any psychiatrist they will tell you bpd is the one disorder they are actually scared of.
In bipolar disorder, mood swings occur but the moods tend to last a lot longer, with weeks or even months of intense mania or deep depression.
And moving forwarddespite wearing a neon this girl is bpd sign over my head, it was a long time before these behaviors led to an official diagnosis.
And detach: realize that attacks, no matter how personal they seem, are part of the disorder, so don't take them personally or get upset.
Can be a massive headache at times but the right one will be the most loyal, loving girl to you.
In / sign upthe myths and realities of dating with borderline personality disorderby kirstyn smithin this age of dynamic information, there is often a strange dichotomy framing mental health.
I'm not sure if the girl i started dating is one, but she's showing some of those signs.