Dating a man going through a bad divorce

You everybody for all your comments about the transition person, i didnt know about this, i dated a girl that i thought was divorced for over a year, only to find out after a couple of months and falling in love with her that she was only away from ex for a few months, and her divorce wasnt even final yet.

And i cant see myself getting married again unless thats what my boyfriend wants after he has divorced and healed.

While we were dating, his divorce proceedings began and things have become very ugly between and his ex-wife.

The divorce is still in the paper-work process and she is definitely moving out as soon as the dissolution has been resolved.

When he told her he wanted a divorce, she said who is going to pay my bills?

Boyfriend and his ex have been separated for two year and the divorce proceedings have been going on for a year+ and has been very messy (just when i get my hopes up that things are going to be put to bed something else happens and everything gets re opened).

All our discussions about divorce have been quite friendly we even went as far as doing our own mediation on a notepad.

He cant accept your past, then he may have difficulty accepting you now or going forward.

That jerk initially lied about being divorced, then started proceedings to get child support sorted out (he had the kids) with my help, but he wasnt in a hurry to actually divorce he just wanted the money from his ex.

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4 months later i came out and asked him whether he was actually divorced and he said no.

I know that i am the weak link that keeps going back to the situation!

After hearing that, i told him we need to take a break until hes divorced.

Whole time my guy was communicating with his ex and going out with her to appease her & never moved fwd with the divorce.

Hes been able to have, perhaps, the best of both worlds, and unless he has a sudden moment of clarity or remorse, it doesnt seem he is going to.

He wont sign the paperwork and i seem to have no way to make him agree to divorce.

Is why i waited till after the divorce was finalized before joining sites like this.

Not leave it to his ex to start it since he asked her for the divorce for goodness sake!

Personally think that one person who isn't divorced yet is very different from another person who isn't divorced yet.

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As iam asking questions about helping me he turns around and says he is going to shower.

No one has filled for divorce and neither of us have spoke to a lawyer but decided to wait till the end of the summer.

Think this woman means quite well, and truly believes she is almost divorced, but almost divorced is not divorced, and her husband is not her ex husband, he is her husband indeed.

Have been dating a guy for 8 months, he told me he had filed for divorce 2, 3 months before we ran into each other.

I started dating a 3 1/2 year separated man last february and he led me to believe he was divorced.

Our last breakup, he decided to put a ring on my finger, even though his wife is still pissing around with the divorce.

I have gotten myself in shape, still go to counseling every other week, met a wonderful woman through a divorce support group after i dated a couple before her, and now just finally sold our marital home (close in two weeks) which is going to substantially reduce the financial stress on my end as i will be paying support to my wife.

It can be very helpful to the one who is going through a divorce or mourning the loss of a loved one.

He finally got the divorce a few months ago, and is with someone else now, but i am so much better without him.

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He has consulted with an attorney about a divorce, but there are military pensions, property to be divided, and other financial accounts to juggle and move around in order to be fair to her, but not let her take everything.

) no more separated-but-not-divorceds for me, no matter how beautiful and charming and smart and sweet.

It would be totally unfair to be separated divorce pending and be in a relationship with someone who has the expectations of a serious relationship.

Am reading the above and can very much relate to sandras story ive been dating a guy who is going through a divorce (his wife filed in june 2015) and these four month have been incredible; however, we werent able to spend much time together as he has his kids three weekends out of a month.

If you are separated, dont say you are divorced, even if there is no chance of reconciliation.

Are many men and women who have a rule when it comes to dating someone who is separated but not divorced yet: they won't do it.

Deal with your divorce on your own time and focus on her when youre together.

I worry that the damage my ex is doing to my daughter is the lasting legacy of this divorce.

I was under the impression that in the time we had not been in touch that they had gone through with the divorce (socially she changed her name back to her maiden name, he refers to her as his ex-wife, they live completely separate lives, their finances are completely separate and there is zero evidence of a woman living in his house).

Never date a man going through divorce

This will take some time, and since we live in texas, a state in which there is no separation, until he is ready to divorce we have to stay under the radar.

They dont need to know about me specifically, but at least get them used to the idea that dad is serious about this and get them used to knowing hes going out on occasion on a date.

However he is dragging his feet on the divorce, i have pushed forwards with the paperwork, the arrangements for our children, etc.

I am very patient but i also express to him how i feel and ask him when he plans on moving forward with the divorce.

After divorce, in the absence of the real or perceived soothing a woman or a relationship offers, men can mistakenly seek this, and overlook the quality of companionship or whether they get along.

This is killing me knowing everything we worked so hard for is going to be gone.

Met a man he says he was over his ex when i met him he told me about his daughter and grandkids,i did not here that there were a baby mother,the daughter is in her 20s i ,m thinking why is he still hanging on to this woman it dawn on me that he is in love with thus woman he claims she hurt him to his soul ,but i,m thinking that all this he said was a lie ,he led me on and it does hurt ,this man begged be to be with him ,i trusted him ,who does that , he said he did nothing wrong but he did ,i,m just going to go on with my life and listen more carefully next time thanks.

He send me a msg last night that his going thru tormenting time but booked a counseling for him and girls, he still calls and send one line whats up checking on me with out anything sweet, im so confused and frustrated on what to do.

I honestly feel sorry for whoever falls for his lies, but its not going to be my problem anymore.

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If they do finally divorce, they have a lot of work untangling a marriage, at the same time have to face addressing the mounting needs of the lovers, and the responsibilities of any hurts.

Are also more specific forms of support, such as a therapist, a divorce support group, or a friendship with someone going through the same thing.

While there isnt a category of separated, divorce pending to select from, if you are not legally divorced, you are still married and may be unavailable.

Guys who can do this have more successful relationships during divorce and avoid bringing more drama into their lives.

Anyone whos ever gone through a divorce, or knows someone who has, knows just how emotionally and legally messy it can be.

We are talking and considering the dating process, but ive had to wait six months before i can file for divorce, since i had to move back to my home state, this means the filing process hasnt yet been started, but my ex and i have not spoken and she has since moved on with her life, last i heard.

We actually went to high school together and caught up online around the end of november 2013 which is when he was given the divorce papers.

He wanted to work it out and said he was getting the divorce, but yet still called it an ultimatum that i was giving him :s.

With the economy the way it has been, i think divorces are taking longer because people don't want to sell their houses and/or spend money on attorneys.

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I have a problem with this because we still are having sex (which i know is bad, but i didnt want a divorce she does, and i can see her struggling or her desire for us to act like a couple ex: cuddling after sex; every time we see each she wants a hug.

One needs to accept the fact that they cannot control the things his ex-spouse is doing, saying, or thinking; nor can he stop her new lifestyle, and the reasons she gave others for the divorce.

During our dates we have discussed our marriages, divorces and the lessons we each learned during those.

Now back to my point, my wife has finally brought my the divorce papers and i dont know if i want a divorce still.

Right now, its the waiting for them to agree on each others demands of the divorce.

Also, i do not want them to have a nasty divorce if it comes to that.

Last week she was back in my city with her girlfriend, and it became clear she is not really divorced, but almost divorced,.

I just broke it off with her and told her that im going to open myself up to meeting and dating new women.

How rejected he feels whould he be able to cope and find it in himself to have a relationship after divorce?

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