I was in college, i remember having an experience that i referred to as a "love hangover.
I was half in love with a different boy who made me feel like i had to be so cool and not at all like myself.
! rather than going into the specific facts around how i met my husband and how and why we decided to spend our lives together, heres the big difference between him and others i have loved there are many boxes on my previous must have list that he doesnt check, and i realized through maturity and life experience, that that was ok.
I wish i didnt marry him i wish i had waited for probably that special love.
My husband had been one of my best friends for 4 years when suddenly i realized i loved him and wanted to be with him.
As a matter of fact i think hate is just a strong word let me say i love him but feels as if i am not in love with him anymore.
, its hard to break down the feeling i had, the certainty, into words, because when i come up with a list of characteristics that made me fall in love with her, it sounds like there could be a bunch of people out there who would fit the bill, but really, the first night we met, i just knew that she was the one.
Loved reading these, especially the one that said forget about knowing- its a choice and also the one talking about it being a process.
Dating one girl but in love with another
Theres a major difference between confessing your love for someone and going out to dinner.
My husband is my partner, my lover, my sharer-of-home-body-and-money; he is my favorite person, but he is not my all.
'm getting to the point where i just don't give a shit anymore - i can't talk to her and even mention another female without her getting mad.
Lover and i met at a time when we were both at complete odds with the thought of idea of dating.
Ultimately decided to leave my relationship, and found someone else, who every day makes me feel loved, and every day i feel certain of how much i care for him.
Just like someone on your post said love is not a feeling, it is an action.
) but ever since then he has never let a day go by without making sure i know how much he loves me and how lucky he is to have me.
Its impossible for two people to be perfect for one another but theres a possibility two people could find a love worth choosing every day, even when things get hard.
Dating one guy but in love with another
For the physical pleasure no doubt, but also, i think, for another reason: it makes him feel like a man.
All of the stories are so sincere and lovely, im just so touched thanks again!
The reason he is so amazing is that he loves my body and accepts me for who i am.
Of my best friends, a girl (who my ex hated simply because she had a vagina - that's another thing, she was insanely jealous, still is) said something that stuck with me: her life with the new guy probably isn't as glamorous as she makes it out to be.
Perhaps none of this is specific enough, because there was another magical its just right quality thats harder to describe, but those are the really concrete obvious things that just clicked in a way no other relationship ever had.
I often felt lonely, unloved and misunderstood without being able to put a finger on the reasons for such peelings- with a man who, i known did loved me.
I was already in the mindset of being in love and preparing to be married soon, so it was easy to fall in love with him.
Do you know that feeling we got when we start liking someone at first sight i call it puppy love, being in lovewell i didnt have that with my boyfriend.
I am happy that i get to share my love of reading, art, fitness, fashion, politics and history, etc.
Sure there were lots of exciting aspects about dating and being married but ultimately in the years to come, there would be many times when we would have to consciously choose to love one another for the relationship to last.
Discovering that we both love hiking and being outdoors, he planned a backpacking trip for just the two of us about six months after we started dating.
She would "break up" with me so she could go sleep with another guy and get her rocks off.
His friends loved me the first time meeting me, he let me meet his family in the 3 months period of dating, he never tried to touch me in areas thats not comfortable in the beginning, he makes me laugh so easy and vice versa.
His part, i fell in love with him watching him eat at a friends birthday dinner.
Blog posts like this one, are inspiring and beautiful, and they can help you think about why you love your person and what is special about them, and that is lovely.
I would love for another post to explore this further or that this discussion could somehow continue.
I won't cherish her as much as i could have, and consequently i won't love her as much as i could have.
Were so good with my now-husband that i eventually started a business helping other people find love via online dating.
. i wouldnt quite call it love at first sight, but rather this strong feeling of but of course, or inevitability, but in a good way.
I love him and i know he feels the same for me and we will be getting married very soon.
He doesnt remember the simplest of things like when we first met yet he says he love me.
Was so hard for me to find a another catholic to date so i knew it was god.
I had the misfortune of discovering a hey sexy, thanks for the fantastic weekend xoxo note at my favorite lovers place recently.
Our son and his wife told us about the new baby we just looked at each otherthis is why you stay together and it was hard sometimes to see that, but the love was bigger than our individual selves and we committed to that.
He made me feel like me and not a woman from a hollywood love story.
I never thought it would happen and had so many doubts but god had a different plan in store and i thank him everyday for the love of my life!
I feel like knowing whos the one is just as much a life choice as a love choice.
Weve been together ever since, its soon a year now and i love him more than anything.
Personally, ive got love for both sides, but if youre a relatively young person whos just trying to find yourself (gag), i highly recommend making a sincere attempt at getting to know those you choose go out with.
Coming across this post for the first timei also loved your comment, catherine, as it really resonates with me.
I dont take for granted the good fortune i have had in meeting someone who loves me too, one who is willing to prioritize our family and life together as much as i do, but i think this idea of the one is kind of scary and semi-oppressive, especially as someone else mentioned for anyone who has lost a partner or otherwise struggles to find one.
Id love a post on couples that are unmarried but just as committed to loving one another.
Always been fascinated by the concept of the one and love to read and hear about peoples experiences.
What ive been through in my past and this relationship i feel confident love exists because ive felt it before.
I have been with another man for about a year now, and i am slowly but surely realizing that my husband is the one.
I started to search locally one night i was heart broken and felt so used by one guy after another.
Since "girls use sex to get love, and guys use love to get sex," a couple will have sex before marriage.
I dont think so, because if you loved the person before, you wouldnt simply wake up and choose not to one day.
However, we still pepper the conversations with l love yous and talk about being friends with benefits if it doesn't work out with the new guy, but she keeps putting up the act that this guy is a dream and everything she has ever wanted.
I had all this love to give but i kept getting hurt over and over again.