And the person i want to kiss, have sex with, and love needs to be someone i like staring at.
Someone feels comfortable wearing casual clothes but you are attracted to people that dress in formal wear, then you shouldnt ask them to change their style to fit your preference.
For example: do you want someone whos very driven to succeed at their career but who also has plenty of free time to spend with you?
Dating someone you are not physically attracted to
's more about giving people a chance than actively trying to date people you're not attracted to.
You could find that someone you werent initially attracted to becomes someone you cant live without.
Not that i am looking for a bradly cooper, rather that i am searching for someone who to me is just as good looking, who appeals to me in a way where i am captivated and intrigued instantly.
Dating someone you are not attracted to
At some point, you could look back and wonder why you werent attracted to them in the first place.
If youre looking for someone to be with long-term, you might want to take their physical attractiveness out of the equation.
I may not feel physically attracted to you yet but sometimes it takes me a while to feel that way.
You want someone whos extremely social, you cant expect them to also like spending weekends alone with you at home.
However, you shouldn't shut yourself off from someone just because you don't feel that sense of passion right away.
However, you shouldnt shut yourself off from someone just because you dont feel that sense of passion right away.
May not want to be in a relationship with someone who doesnt feel immediately attracted to them.
, does anyone want to feel as if they are not good enough or that someone had to take weeks or months to develop physical attraction to them when they could so readily have it with other people?
Its not fair to lead someone on if youre just keeping them around until someone better comes along.
Sure you want someone who is going to make you laugh, someone who is smart enough to know what is actually going on in the world, someone with a great personality.
say something like:i really enjoy spending time with you but i dont feel attracted to you at this point.
Youre overly critical about peoples looks, you wont be able to be attracted to them.
If youre not attracted to this person now, can you see your attraction to them growing in the future?
Intense attraction to someone can sometimes blind you to the fact that you may not be compatible with them.
Somewhere within the first four minutes of meeting someone, after a handshake is exchanged, i 100% know if i could ever see myself making out with them, dating them, etc.