Where yes i realize that logically there are more attractive people out there in the world, but none would compare to the man i was in a current relationship with.
But it was this man, ironically, who i thought was extremely attractive when i was first saw him.
Dating someone you don't find physically attractive
God has wired us to appreciate beauty in his design to find men (for women) or women (for men) physically appealing and that is a real and important element in our pursuit of marriage, and eventually in our flourishing within the covenant.
Would not encourage a man to pursue a godly woman whom hes not attracted to physically, but i wont let the conversation end there, either.
Dating someone you don't find attractive
Because if you are dating someone, not just sleeping with them for one night, chances are you might see them close to every day.
Mutual faith in jesus christ should be the most arrestingly attractive thing about any potential spouse.
, does anyone want to feel as if they are not good enough or that someone had to take weeks or months to develop physical attraction to them when they could so readily have it with other people?
But he'll find someone who likes him just the way he is (fetish and all) and so will heather.
In accepting a date with someone i dont find attractive, not in any of the ways i just mentioned, is only going to lead me to eventually re-realize that they dont make me feel the way other people have already made me feel.
What an awesome thing it would be if the world was confused today by your interest in a christian woman whom they find less physically attractive, only to have it make perfect sense twenty-five years later when youre happily married (and more attracted to each other than ever) and theyre five months into their fifth marriage.
Our day, it seems wise, in general, for men and women to date someone to whom they are attracted.
In fact, in our eyes and hearts, it should be the most attractive thing about the most attractive people.
When we met at the restaurant i instantly found s unattractive but we had a great time!
Given the common assumptions and practices in our society today, including the church, i do not believe a man (or woman) should begin a dating relationship with someone to whom they are not physically attracted.