Dating your best friend s ex husband

Discussing this topic with my female friends, it seems to me that men are especially experienced in dealing with this dilemma.

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They likely have things in common and, even after the breakup, still share many of the same friends, and were all looking for love, right?

You can find yourself with little to cling to when the occasional downward slide occurs.

It's difficult to meet people you're romantically interested in beyond an already-defined circle, and outside of your city's queer scene, most people you run into are likely to be straight.

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Don't ask your man if you're prettier/smarter/better at scrabble than his last girlfriend.

If one of your biggest goals in life is to find someone to marry, i certainly wouldnt dismiss something like that without some serious consideration.

Butif youre wondering how to go about dating your friends ex, and you think the pursuit might really have potential, dont worry, you are not a terrible person.

Being said, if you find yourself drawn much more strongly toward the ex, then its worth thinking about.

It may be tempting ask your friend to analyze what happened between the two of them so that you can avoid making the same mistakes, but resist that urge.

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Even if you meet someone to whom you think you have no previous connection, a 10-minute conversation almost always reveals that she went to high school with your college roommate, used to be on a volleyball team with that girl from your book club, and had a six-month stand with your favorite barista.

Trust that your friend is happy you've found someone you dig, not plotting to sabotage your love.

Besides, comparing yourself to anybody even if you come out ahead is always going to lead to feeling crappy, because basing your self-esteem on where you stand relative to someone else is not healthy.

Your friend doesnt have the right to be angry because you are dating her ex.

Suggest you focus less on how your feelings are impairing your present romantic relationship and more on how to repair what was clearly an important past friendship.

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It's common to assume that anything shared with you is by default shared with your partner as well; however, your friend might be much less comfortable speaking to you in confidence if she thought the details of her personal life were going to be relayed to someone who used to share her toothbrush.

The key to making a prudent decision here is to keep an emotional distance until you have made a conscious decision to move forward with your friends ex.

In fact, when we met, my now-partner was on a date with my best friend.

We end up having a great conversation, and try as we may, sometimes no amount of telling ourselves, pull yourself together, man!

(i'm going to use female pronouns for your friend, and male pronouns for your sweetie, for the sake of simplicity; however, every rule here applies no matter the genders of the participants.

Might be the case that dating this guy would completely ruin a friendship, and youd have to move to another country.

If you were the one who got dumped however, we think you have a little more leverage in pursuing your ex's pal; after all s/he didn't want you anymore, right?

Take it from a guy who has been in this tight spot a time or twothere are three things you must do before moving forward with your friends ex.

Hope we can all agree that our friendships are more important to us than a few exciting dates with the next best thing.

Stop thinking of putting distance between you and your problem friend and actively engage with her instead.

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And don't ever use jealousy or insecurity over their past relationship to excuse irrational or controlling behavior on your part.

All you know, your ex just wasn't that into it and might be stoked to see you move on to someone who's better suited for you.

Guys and gals get to know their friends significant others in nonthreatening, no-pressure contexts and learn to appreciate what their friend liked about them.

And if so, tread carefully when spending time with someone who has a history with a friend, especially if you dont really see a future with the guy.

Don't do this ever, but especially not if his last girlfriend is the person you're going rock climbing with sunday.

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Trust that your dude is with you because he likes you and you're awesome, not because he's biding his time until your friend takes him back.

So don't seek out comparisons, and if your dude brings up the topic, tell him you're not interested in hearing it.

They dated casually for a few weeks before they split up and we got together, and three years later the same friend gave one of the readings at our wedding.

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Once weve established that a girl or a guy isnt for us, is it not then just an act of friendship to look around, identify a grateful recipient with potential chemistry and pass them on?

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