I haven't been "alone" in three years, so when i was, hooking up with someone was the way to goespecially with my close guy friends.
Like, my general motive on tinder is just to talk to cool people, but if a hook-up becomes a thing then maybe i would.
Do you usually tell people that off the bat or do you wait until they ask you to hook-up?
Do guys only want hook up
The relationship i want with one man is not exactly the same kind i'd want with another.
: mostly because a lot of my friends have formed meaningful relationships with guys off tinder that didn't necessarily start off with sex.
Looks like tinder serves a variety of purposes depending on what you want and how you use it.
Do guys on tinder only want to hook up
Though i respect that, i still want to find someone in a similar place of coming out.
, 19, undeclaredvice: alright, if you don't me asking, why don't you have 'no hook-ups' in your bio?
"i think your twenties are a time when the only real common ground everyone has is a sense of uncertainty.
People with blank profiles, on the other hand, may be communicating that their photos are the only things to consider.
Do you get negative responses when dudes find out you're not into just hooking up right away?
[laughs] tiffanie, 20, swim coach vice: your bio says to "swipe left" if someone wants to hook-up.
, i was a sheltered child so going off to college and being freei went wild with hook-ups, even my guy friends would give me props and say i'm their idol.
I feel like i only want to date someone who i am 100% convinced i'll be with forever.
Every guy i was down for lived too far for me to travel and every close guy was a fuck boy, so even if i wanted to have a friends with benefits with [somebody], before i could say anything, he was gone.
, i don't think hooking up with other guys is the right way to get over someone.
And i'm constantly shocked by how many girls are shocked that guys aren't on tinder to date.
Eventually people started calling me a whore, and i became something that i didn't want to be anymore.
"i'm new to it but so far have been going on dates, although a hookup wouldn't be out of the question!
I did meet two guys on there whom i dated for about a month each, but then i had to end things with them because i got back together with my ex-boyfriend (whom i met at work).
While i don't doubt that they're true to the experiences of those quoted (though i wouldn't be surprised if some of the guys exaggerated a bit), they're afar cry from my own experience with tinder.