Drunken hookup with best friend

Wed been friends for years,i know what his drunken hookups looked like meaningless moments exchanged with girls he never took seriously.

Ive found it a lot harder to work at continuing the friendship, especially when it became more than a casual thing [usually on the girls end].

.While its important to be aware of some of the negative consequences of hooking up with a friend, you cant worry about everything that could go wrong.

Since these are the last two things you want to happen when youre trying to establish your friendship, drinking should be avoided at all costs.

Or another night, one i actually recall on my own, where i told my then-girlfriends best friend exactly what i and everyone else thought of her.

Funny, good memory and twilight i grant you *ginatingles* for that my pathetic monogamy made me a very annoying drunk i used to tell all my friends (i only drink with really close friends that i trust with my life) how in love i was with my gringo.

I dont want to lose the friendship but its getting harder and harder to keep my feelings for him in check.

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This means discussing if you want to tell your other friends, if it was a one-time thing or if you have feelings for each other.

.We asked collegiettes and the experts about what its really like to hook up with a friend, what to consider beforehand and how to deal afterwards.

My friends, both male and female (but especially female), cant help but tell me how they feel about me as im helping them to their bed or letting them lean on me as they stagger around, respectively.

But drunk, he becomes too friendly and talkative, even flirty with other girls through my sober eyes.

Clare says that despite hooking up with her close friend a few times, they were able to laugh it off because of their strong friendship.

Are often two people who were once good friends, but after having sex, they begin to regret that they got intimate.

It can seem like fun to reminisce about it, but in the long run, its just adding some needless temptation and it will get in the way of being friends.

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He would talk to female strangers, ask for their names, kiss female friends on the cheeks, and mostly likely running around to socialize and not talking to me.

[after hooking up with my friend,] we were both open and our friendship was strong enough to recognize there was something more between us, says sara, a freshman from unc-chapel hill.

[my friend] and i hooked up regularly, so it was chill for a bit, says ralph*, a senior from syracuse university.

Go out with mutual friends and try to treat each other like you would any other friend.

.Theres also a distinct possibility that because youre good friends, you can openly talk about what happened and have it not be weird.

Get my shares of i love you, man s and your girlfriends so lucky, i want to date you s, but i also get the occasional look bro, i think youre a ****ing douche and im sorry i never told you but thanks anyway.

He thought curry, my best mate, was gay and made it clear to him that he was into me.

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Hadnt dated a best friend since high school, and i vividly remember the agonizing pain and loneliness that came with his departure, so i made it a point never todabble down that road again.

The second was because id been friend zoned so damn often i was tired of it.

I broke the cardinal, fight club rule of best friendom: dont fall for your best friend.

According to gabby*, a senior at the university of delaware, hooking up with a friend might not be a bad idea if you see theres potential for a relationship.

Demanding to know where someone is, what they did last night or who theyre having lunch with tomorrow is not acceptable between friends.

Further down the road when some time has passed since you were lovers and your friendship has strengthened, then it can be okay, but in the early days, its not worth taking the risk.

Being too possessive of them will only make them resent you, and no friendship can flourish with resentment in the mix.

. i have known several women who felt secure in their boyfriends love because he confessed it while really drunk, though he had never said it sober.

Youve thought about hooking up with your friend for a while or it spontaneously happens one night, theres a lot that can happen when you take that next step.

Theres really no reason that you cant be friends with an ex, or that you need to let one drunken hookup spoil an old friendship.

Because of this, its no surprise that sex often makes friendships seem impossible after the deed is done.

I kept silent and buried my feelings between him dating girls whoforever hated me and explaining to my friends why we would never work.

By avoiding certain situations, keeping a mature attitude, and planning out and managing their meetings and interactions, two people can find friendship even after sex.

I tried dating a friend last year [after hooking up with him], and it got pretty messy, says isabella, a junior at the university of california, los angeles.

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Youve realized that youre physically attracted to your friend, theres always the question if you should actually hook up with him or not.

It was pretty devastating to me because i feel like he completely disregarded the fact that we were friends and that we could continue being friends without the weirdness.

The aftermath is positive or negative, communication after hooking up with a friend is key.

If you cant find other friends to go with, make sure you hang out somewhere where you wont feel like its just the two of you.

If he always represses or denies his feelings in the morning, he is not good boyfriend material.

.To help you decide if hooking up with your friend is the best idea or not, consider these pros and cons!

Think the hardest three words i ever had to hearwere my best friend saying our hookup was just a one-night thing.

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Can get pretty complicated, and throwing your best friend into the mix makes it even more difficult to navigate.

Hes your friend, talking about hooking up should be easier than if you were having the same conversation with a stranger.

He tells me sober and drunk that i am his best friend and that he doesnt want to ruin that.

There are ways you can encourage one once you suspect he really does have feelings, but your boyfriend cant be drunk 24/7 (we hope) to tell you what you want to hear.

By weighing the pros and cons beforehand and knowing what to expect afterwards, you can successfully handle a friend hook-up, no matter how it turns out!

[after hooking up with my friend], i didnt see him or hear from him until i saw him the next week at the bar, and he completely ignored me, says steph*, a senior at notre dame university.

.Whether your friends are weird because the dynamic of your group changed or they just want to push your buttons, be prepared to get the side comment or blatant joke about it.