Just wanted some suggestions from you about moving on or should i still date him as it really bothers me and also when he tells me that he doesnt know what he really wants.
, as you mentioned, you see him signed into the dating site only when you are also logged into the dating site.
I still believe what i wrote there, im finding that many of the women who are contacting me are not at the point where they are sure if the man is their boyfriend or not.
If hes writing me long, personal emails, calling me, or dating me and hes still online now every night, i keep contacting and dating multiple men.
Eric, you can justify, or play neutral to his action all you want, but it doesnt change the fact that a man who stated to a woman that he wanted exclusivity, is someone who would have no need to log back into a dating site.
Again, not with any type of ultimatum, but id let her know that youd be interested in concentrating on dating each other exclusively.
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We met on a dating site and were surprised to find that even though we live in a small town we had never met.
If youre two months in and his profile is still up, its time to get your profile back up as well.
Dating but he's still online
If he agreed to exclusivity and hes still on dating websites, thats cheating, doesnt matter the reason.
Whether you call it spying, checking, or validating your suspicions, what it comes down to is a lack of trust.
The online dating profile is tellng me that he is still keeping his options open just incase.
That being said on yahoo ill sometimes delete a profile and put up a new hidden one the same day so that i cant monitored by someone im dating.
About a month into dating, i knew i really liked him and wanted to see where it was going to go.
Then, he has been trying to sleep with my with no strings attached and even today he told me he misses me and wants me, but still sees people that he met on the site, but i am the only one he really likes sure.
Where he stands may not be where you hope, but he should still know where that is!
And no a guy views dating so differently to us that it can only be expected that removing his profile is repeatedly a delayed occurrence.
I know that when you are dating you should do this but i just cant and he said he was the same.
He's still on a dating site
The time august 2014 (now one year of dating), he was spending every night at my house, we practically lived together, even though he still had his own home.
Even after three discussions and several screenshots as well as telling him how to delete his account and how to bury his cookie email tracks, he still could not resist.
Am sorry to be negative here, but i dated a guy for three months that i met onlinei noticed that his profile was still active and often he was checking it dailyi wanted to trust him so i didi confronted him about it, but said that i trusted him and wanted him to take his profile down because he wanted to, not because i asked him to.
I still think thats a fine thing to do but more recently ive found myself encouraging women to be a bit more pro-active or aggressive (whereas changing your photo is rather passive-aggressive).
I messaged a guy on a dating site and we texted for weeks before finally meeting up.
I want to trust him, and i have but i found out that he still visits his datig profile regularly.
And her bf opened the door by mentioning he was logging into the dating site to look at old messages (what a crock of horse hockey) and by saying she was not his top match.
He checks his emails in front of me and i didnt think much of it that he still got emails from another dating website and he had said he couldnt remember the password.
If for any reason i do a search some time from now and i find him anywhere near a dating website, im gone, no explanations this time.
He's still on a dating website
I then asked if he was still on the dating site and he said yes.
I have a question, i have been dating a guy that i was introduced to by my sister.
Im happy to say i accomplished all those things and with support from my best friend, decided to start dating again but i was certainly not looking for a relationship or to get serious.
The dating game has changed tremendously over the years and many have ulterior motives and love not being one of them!
Basically i met this guy on a marriage website and we got to know each other of the basic stuff.
He probably doesnt even kno that i love him or that i still want a relationship with him cos i try hard to act calm and cool with everything.
.So ive learned to live with the on line dating snafoos and chalk this up to him just needing to feel like a rock star to make him feel like a kid again.
Your situation is a little different because it sounds as if he didnt have a dating profile when you started dating but now he has one (?
He said that he wants to continue dating me and that he wants to work on things.
He's still looking dating site
And barely said much at allthis past week i got a bad feeling so checked the dating site where we met, and his profile (which wasnt there a week before) was back up.
Ill add to that by writing that i think until people are exclusively dating that it is fair to leave the profile up.
However, i would do the opposite if i found out the guy i am with is doing all these dating app things behind me.
So i began snooping and found that even though after 6 months he was still using the dating site that we met on, but he is doing it from his phone so that i cant check.
How many girls hed been with sexually and not: not many, and if he was dating anyone else: no, and if he was what i like to call a serial dater, dating many at once.
Thats its okay to continue chatting and even dating online while dating and building a relationship with one of us.
Then, one day, out of the blue i decided to see if he was still using the dating site and he was online and chatting with girls.
Finally bothered me so much that his profile was still active that i asked him about it.
That or i would just cut him off the guy i used to see from okc has a new gf supposedly but he is still on there.
.For the record my bf and i did not meet on an online dating site either.
I told him the reason why and what i had done and he didnt try to deny anything, he was very straight forward about it and said he thought we were still looking, he was under the impression i was still looking as well.
Mean we are just getting to know each other, and its still very new, but since i had asked him if he is still on dating sites or talking to other women, i feel like he wasnt sincere by telling me he wasnt.
I messaged him on my friends proflie and he answered very nicely that i was pretty and he was still looking for a relationship.
.If im starting to get serious about a guy, then i may check to see if hes still active online.
Slept together after about 5 dates and it just felt right but neither of us mentioned about being exclusive, i think we both took it we were only seeing and sleeping with each other, at this point he was still active on site but my time on there was becoming less.
I began dating, i realized what fun i was having with it, even if a date wasnt great, i just loved getting out there and meeting new people and discovering things about myself and relationships that i hadnt before.
In this alternative fact world, im always surprised when im asked to defend online dating, because it needs no defense.
The original poster stated that she slept with someone without any clear idea of what their relationship actually was before doing so ( quote its not like id call this guy my boyfriend already), yet is upset that her sexual partner (thats all he really is ) is still looking for dates somewhere else.
If fact, i expect them to be dating other people even if were serious (ie having sex) until we have a specific conversation about being exclusive.
Id say that long of exclusive dating should be long enough for someone to know if theyre ready for that step.
Been dating the same guy for 4 months and today i asked him where i stand and he is not answering me back is he hiding something from me.
But he would still talk to a few girls he met on okcupid on whatsapp.
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I think for now, you might want to hide your profile in the off chance that hes keeping his profile up because he still sees yours is up.
Hours from where i live, so we knew that dating each other wouldnt be that easy, but we also said to each other that we would make it work.
Last time i asked him why he went on dating sites he said when i wasnt around he felt lonely.
If youve been on one or two dates and your guy still has his profile up, you have nothing to worry about.