It stems from a conversation with a girlfriend from 4-5 years back a girlfriend that i loved, a girlfriend who was deeply distrustful of men.
Casually mentioned to my ex-girlfriend that i was reading and participating in discussion forums on sex and dating.
Hook up with my girlfriend
So, my friend, jason, if you dont know that your girlfriend can handle the truth, dont tell her the truth.
Jason and the now girlfriend had gotten down and dirty on the first date and there was an issue with unsafe sex with the one nighter the following night , then back to now -gf thereafter.
If you want to start dating your ex again, that's one thing, but if you want to know how to hook up with your ex girlfriend, then it's a whole different ball game.
If jasons relationship with the current girlfriend was still casual and non exclusive after the first date, then why all this guilt ?
Jason chooses to reveal his guilty feelings over his pre-relationshipindiscretion, he makes himself vulnerable to the girlfriend by showing he is not perfect, he is human.
If jason feels guilty, why not channel that guilt into being the best boyfriend he can be for his new girlfriend?
Coming clean, setting up rules with the new girlfriend, apologizing if it hurt her these are beneficial types of relationship movement.
I think even if this scenario is true, he still wasnt cheating on her because she was not his girlfriend.
Hooking up with an ex is risky behavior that can lead you to get hurt all over again, but it can also give you a thrill to hook up with someone that you used to date.
And a couple of days after your first date, how were you to know that your current girlfriend might be the one?
I feel that if you want to cheat doesnt that mean you dont really want to be with your boyfriend or girlfriend or at the very least, you have serious problem in the relationship, and doesnt that mean that the relationship should in fact end?
But the sex didnt mean anything, and there wasnt a relationship between jason and his girlfriend yet.