I have no problem with men having a physical type, and if that means a woman with short legs gets rejected, so be it.
Men who are successful have no problem at all finding a good woman once they broaden their horizon and date women in other countries and cultures.
She told the women that the shorter men included a doctor, a best-selling author, a champion skier, a venture capitalist whod made millions by the age of 25.
I guess women would prefer a man 150 pounds over weight, than date a 5 foot 3 inch gymnastic stud?
Cant compare being short to someone that is fat i am so sick of that excuse fat people have the option to workout!
Point is to get you to respond with as many of your lame theories as possible so young short men can spot an idiot like you more quickly.
A successful man whojust happen to be short can just do like you did and say to hell with american women and date women in other countries who are not as shallow about height.
Yet, isn't this brazen height-ism just another variation on the kind of "no fat chicks" misogyny that would seem both offensive and outdated if a guy were to just casually drop it into a tinder profile?
Would get ripped into on the internet if i said i wouldnt date a girl thats heavier than me because she makes me feel skinny.
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Can change their weight short guys cant change their height thats something we cant control and tall guys are more likely to cheat smh.
Another backed her up, saying that had the taller men had a criminal record she might have been swayed to choose a shorter man.
Of course we arent all going to get the 10s, and after many rejections, we rest for s short period, and then look around again, slightly lowering our expectations.
Both my dad and i questioned her about it and she got defensive and said that doug could afford to be nice but because she was a short woman, she had to establish her authority.
I enjoy being face to face with a lover and if hes that much shorter, its a bit of a mood killer having his face buried in the fun bags constantly.
But i am also so short that it does not matter if a guy is 53 or 63!
, and its nice that you included a link to an article explaining that short men as a group arent more aggressive.
Im 58 and several women have admitted before our date = they have reservations about my height, asking me questions like are you really 58?
The term was simply made up by people who do not like assertive short men.
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They wont care if you are shorter if you have other good things going on for you.
She was in the airforce and a high ranking airforce sergeant, she married this tall janitor who quit his job shortly after they got married, he never worked a day during the marraige and now suing her for alimony.
Friend t likes short guys because shes 5 foot 5, 108 pounds, with basically no curves at all and has always been super skinny.
But short men have a different cultural experience than tall men, and i believe that this can make them excellent lovers, amazing boyfriends, and sensitive partners.
She asks why would anyone want to date a woman who merely conforms to media-hyped/society-enforced notions of what is attractive?
A very short women (im under 5 ft), ive rarely been attracted to men between 5ft and 55.
Ive tried dating shorter men just because ive been called superficial so many times and the physical attraction is just not there.
Short guys know they are short, and very few of them will demand that you make concessions about it (the ones who do are jerks, obvi).
It is no more descriminating then the men who prefer shorter thinner women, because they feel big and strong!
Now i have always suggested short men broaden their horizon and look at non american women.
You think there arent some short men with an inferiority complex, or a feeling of being victimized due to their height, you are nuts.
So you just label all short men something negative based on the actions of one.
A successful man who just happen to be short can just do like you did and say to hell with american women and date women in other countries who are not as shallow about height.
Hopefully someone who has no problem dating short men contacts tom (maybe that was the aim of the whole thing to get tom a lot of exposure) but i doubt any rewiring of what people find attractive is going to happen by being berated for being honest.
Personally, i dont like to date men taller than 510, otherwise i have to stand on my toes to kiss them and my neck gets sore.
My husband has forced me to be an equal, and showed me what being shorter has made himan ass.
Yet, i have been criticized for not wanting to be with a man with a scratchy beard, or stinky smokers breath, but women are evil if they dont want to date a man they are not attracted to.
55 an my nice fat thing would really look ridiculous compared to my short height, an your tall stature.
Although you can feel free to substitute older women, older men, heavier women, or asian men, i honestly feel that nobody gets a rawer deal than short guys.
Enjoyed the plethora of short jokes you made, i am a short man like many here.
The posture that feminimity is based on weakness is a concept that sells women short and limits not only their possibility for greater emotional connection, but professional progress as well.
And even though we had good initial results, the fact remains, empirically: women dont want short men.
Want young men who just happen to be short, to know how to deal with predjudice people like you in the work place, that is my point.
Real question, ultimately, is not how hard short guys have it in the dating (particularly online) world, but the power and control women can have over their own lives (and men) by being free from culturally imposed dating standards that limit, not the short guys dating prospects, but the ladies true strength.
If it were, youd find short women whove already had their kids and not wanting more, not find height a problem with guys.
If theres a shorter man in the room and hes single, you can bet his making his way over to me, and i dont think its got much to do with my looks, body, or anything other than that its just such a relief to look a female adult in the eye.
If you were her and could date any women you wanted would you change your preference or would you date with your preference?
Yet, hearing or seeing a woman say, "i'd absolutely never date a guy who's shorter than me" barely even draws a reaction.
, there are a number of reasons that women are not as attracted to shorter men: since im not so sure the other ladies have the guts to say it:Theres something disturbing about going out with a guy who is eye level with my chest.
Men who are successfulhave no problem at all finding a good woman once they broaden their horizon and date women in other countries and cultures.
Have a suspicion youre ashort man trying to pass for some tall man bad ass advice.
If youre refusing to date him because hes short and unattractive and doesnt have a good job and he doesnt want kids, etc?
This is not a plea to have women date short guys, but a statement that it doesnt make a difference unless you place your own limitation on your life.
, that while he complains about women not wanting him for being short, he makes a clear preference for petite women.
If a woman has legs that are proportionally short for the rest of her body, or was only born with an a cup, she cant help that, and yet men will reject her for short legs, boob size, her butt not round enough, or flat enough, or for not having a perfect hour glass figure, although she could be of a healthy weight.
(i have been called a liar on this board for stating that i dont care about height, and my track record confirms that i dont care about height, but i digress) i have also pointed out that men themselves dont always want to date a woman taller than them, and was told that shorter men rejecting taller women was irrelevant.
Imagine meeting a guy who said he'd only date girls with d cup boobs or larger.
If you eat extremely well, and you were with a shorter guy that was 55 or even 56, there would still be an excellent chance that your kids would be (using your stated height) at least 510 511.
I would love to date short men if only because itd vastly expand my dating pool.
Reason we have such disparity in heights is because when two short people mate they make short people duh, short women marry up literally.
I know men that areshort, tall and average height that i would describe asswitch blades.
Im 5 feet 4 or 5 inches, and i do prefer guys at least 2 or 3 inches taller than me, and ive mostly dated such guys.
Beginning to think the problem isnt short, fat, bald, skinny, big noses, little noses, crossed eyes or what have you.
The way, i am a strong, confident and successful guy, but for anyone to suggest because of such strength i am (or any short guy) napoleanic is in need of some therapy.
So dont blame it on height, not all woman are unwilling to date a shorter man, or marry them, just unwilling to make everything right in their world that being short messed up.