You'd think that, hell, five dates from 33 messages to guys you actually wanna meet isn't bad, right?
In contrast, my co-host, ben, got only one return on the 20+ messages he sent in his own version of the experiment.
How to write a good okcupid message
" i messaged only guys i found intriguing, and not one responded with, "ugh, no thanks crazy lady"!
What did i learn overall from 33 messages over two weeks, with 13 responses, nine ghosts overall, a few lame excuses, and one great date?
How to send a good okcupid message
I used okcupid as my source since it's the dating site i interact with most often.
There have also been occasions where i was going to respond (and just hadnt yet because i was busy) but then the guy decides they want to send several more without my response.
Am bombarded with messages on my blog (They Really Said This) from guys asking why women won't respond to their messages on various dating sites.
Golddeijavu26/m/914 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago(0 children)her "you should message me if" section had this:Just don't contact me unless you're an animagus, a cloud of fairy dust, or literally a dragon.
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By the time i was in the 20-something-message zone, they were three sentences and a bit more general.
If you send two messages and a female doesnt respond, shes not interested and there is no reason to send more.
Yes, there are various goals with what people want those dates to lead to, but it's not like we're trolling okcupid, bumble, tinder or match because we're bored (most of the time).
Got a response by sending this:"just don't contact me unless you're an animagus, a cloud of fairy dust, or literally a dragon.
, i messaged 33 men, and 13 responded, most of them within hours if not only a day.