How to tell if your more than a hookup

If hes asking you about these things, and telling you his, then he doesnt want to be a passing thought in your mind; he wants a permanent spot.

Hes taking a chance, and hes fully aware that the decision, and his fate, is in your hands.

Of the most common questions we get from you guys is this: how can i tell if he wants a relationship or just wants to hook up?

Say something like, "i totally get that you might not have been expecting this, and we don't need to figure it all out right nowi just wanted to put that on your radar.

Youre wondering which category hes putting you under, take a minute to think simply: has he been trying to earn your affection, or has he been pressing the right buttons to get momentary access?

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Talk about your childhood dreams, what's going on at work, and how you've always wanted to go back to grad school.

Theyll ask questions about what youre willing to do, where you draw the line, and then eventually, theyll try to sext you, if not come onto you in person.

Hookups (like spending time together and conversation) are a way of getting to know someone.

A girl i want to just hookup with i have no such problem and usually get down to business as soon as possible.

Men just looking to feel good for a night or two wont take the time to do much more than they have to, because theyre not staying around.

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That said, if you get together with a guy who is not just in it for the sex, but nevertheless doesn't want any more from you than that, he just thought you didn't click.

I make sure i don't see her more than once a week (twice a week every once in a while).

Dick pics, the i want to stick ___ in your ___ as an opening line, asking for nude photos, being explicitly sexual at all in the first, 20+ messages, or 1-2 interactions in person.

There will be a level of common ground, communication, and honesty that you just wont have with a hookup.

Hell hold doors open, buy you drinks and food, and match his pace to yours out in public.

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In today's modern world, many relationships start much more casually than they did in the past.

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I love my girl right now and i really want her to know that i love her for her and i am straight up serious when i tell her that i want a serious relationship.

Hes going to want to meet your friends and family too, and hell try his best to get them to like him.

A guy looking to get serious will find that common ground, and use it as a stepping-stone to establish a more meaningful connection with you.

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Rather than just asking what you do for a living, he may ask what you like about your job, and where you see yourself in the next five years.

With a girl i'm interested in on a deeper, relationship level, i always try to have a real conversation with her and try to get to know her a lot more than if i just want to hook up with her.

Your relationship has been hookup-focused for the summer, it's time to subtly start changing the focus.

Let me break down your walls, i promise ill rebuild it with trust and loyalty and will never leave your walls because youre my only one in this lifetime and if i were given a chance to be with you in another lifetime, i would.

Hell respect your pace, get to know you, and offer a shoulder to cry on if needed.

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Are you sick of boys flirting with you...but not asking you out? Do they want to have sex with you but not make you their girlfriend?

You have to sell something other than dick, something that is so good that it compensates for the negative value of the dick youre trying to add on to the deal.

When a mans truly interested, he understands that he needs to treat you like a lady in order to stay in your good graces.

When a man wants a real relationship, hell put in way more effort than those just looking to hook up.

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However, you shouldn't overdo it, because you may alienate an otherwise great guy who thinks you just string him along; and (question #5 above) if you have been dtf before but suddenly changed your approach, he may felt as if he was taken for a fool.

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's something magical about a fresh start in a relationship, whether it's something brand new or just trying to figure out how to turn a hookup into a relationship.

Talking about your goals and dreams is something you do with close people only, like family, friends, and partners.

It's not that if all guys who would be interested in dating you will automatically be put off by this if it happens to them (though some will be), it's that these guys who manage to get into your pants on the first date and are also so pushy to get here probably aren't interested in anything beyond that.

He will prefer to wait for the right time, till youre ready, to let the magic happen.

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