Whenever people ask me why i date someone so much taller i reply "so she can reach stuff from the top shelves for me.
/u/meepermogle gave some pretty excellent advice; the fact that you're taller is largely irrelevant.
Not that i would feel weird simply by dating a taller girl, but i've come to realize i prefer short girls.
Goldtheravenousrabbitmale -2 points-1 points0 points 1 year ago(1 child)most guys are interested in women who are taller than them.
I would date a woman for many reasons, not just because she was taller than me.
Is 6'4", dates women, and finds that a big height difference only makes things more hilariously interesting.
To go on even just one date with someone who falls outside of our eight-percent range, and to ask ourselves whether there's actually less chemistry there.
" i recently had one guy actually look over my head to see if the person he was meeting was someone else besides me.
Is it ok to date someone taller than you
Is 6'2", dates men, and wants to feel less weird about a big height difference.
I know the perception of others does influence who i date, or even decide to hang out with, when in an ideal world it would just be about the connection i have with that person.
Goldlleshi12345 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago(0 children)i've never dated a girl talked than me, mainly because i'm 6'4".
Goldthroesofdespair 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago(0 children)i've dated/fucked so many 5'6" guys.
In heels, i was a good three inches taller than him, and it felt so weird having this little guy kind of under my arm as we walked.
Goldabisuecosplayfemale 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago(1 child)i only recently got over this myself, i think back and realize i would have dated someone shorter but didn't get asked, now i know why!
Goldlinkumsmale 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago(0 children)i haven't dated a taller girl yet, but i have a thing for multi-story tall giantesses, so i think i'd be fine with or even prefer dating someone taller than me.
As far as dating a woman taller than me, i'm definitely fine with it, but i'm also probably guilty of preemptively thinking i'm "too short" for a woman taller than me and not giving it a proper chance.
Is it weird to date someone taller than you
Goldbicameral_mind 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago(0 children)i'm 6'4" so it's nice dating someone of similar stature.
I'm not one of those people who has to date someone tall, but i do notice that short guys have always sought me out because i'm shorter than them.
Ive had 5 counterparts in the past; one who was 4 inches taller than me, 2 have been my height and the other two were 5'9 amd 5'4 respectively and none of them ever commented on my height as a negative.
In one survey, about half of collegiate men required their date to be shorter, while a monstrous nine of every ten women said they would only date a taller man.
How would you like it if you were always asked about your bra size huh, and if i said i only like to date women with 34ds and up?
Goldi_a1m_to_misbehavemale 7 points8 points9 points 1 year ago(0 children)i'm 6'0, so this perhaps isn't a big problem for me, but i was with a girl who was 5'9 who liked heels and ended up the same height as me - if not taller, because i like leaning on stuff.
Popularnow, in order for you, a shorter man*, to circumvent this bullshit and convince wonderful taller women to date you, you have to understand why women feel this way.
exit_sandman 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago(0 children)i have a soft spot for short girls and on top of that i'm less attracted to women taller than i am.
Though in fairness, when i see someone write something like that, i immediately lose attraction to their personality anyway.
Is 5'11", dates men, and finds it attractive when shorter guys are confident enough to be interested.
Men should date women who are taller than they are, and women should date shorter men.
I'd rather date a guy who says he's five feet tall and is honest than someone who's trying (unsuccessfully) to cover something up.
Gold45585486888 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago(0 children)i've never actually dated a girl taller than me but i did hit on a girl who turned out to be taller (it's hard to tell when you're sitting).
The sex was a little weird at times, and you get the occasional douche who points out the obvious that your girl friend is taller than you lol.
Goldyudothesethings 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago(0 children)i had maybe one conversation with my girlfriend where we just acknowledged that she's taller than me and that it doesn't bother either of us.
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The booties had about a two-inch heel on them, and i was taller than him when we met up.
He actually was a couple inches taller than me, but the question caught me off guard.
Or guys can also be completely dismissive once they see me in person and say, "you seem much taller in your photos" or "i didn't realize how short you were until you got off that stool.
The root cause of all that self-consciousness is that toxic masculinity garbage that makes us believe the taller you are, the "manlier" you are, and the better you are.
Is 5'5", dates mostly men, and finds her height is more of an advantage since transitioning.
He was cute, friendly, funny, and pretty much the ideal first-dance date candidate except for one thing: he was a couple inches shorter than me.
Overall, if i had to pick between staying shorter than average and being way taller, i'd stay the same.
Goldroastbeeftacohathe who waits behind the walls 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago(0 children)i went out with a girl who was about a foot taller than me, i'm 6'2.
And yes, sometimes it can be awkward to kiss someone who is way, way taller than you, but its honestly cute having to stand on your tippy-toes.
" even if her height is part of her appeal, wait until fifth-date post-coital bliss to say how much you love it.
Is 6'8", dates women, and can learn a lot about people by the way they react to his height.
Goldfosiacat 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago(0 children)fwiw my grandpa was like 4'8 and my grandma was like almost a foot taller and they were married until he passed away a few years ago.
) "i wanted someone to overpower me, who could wrap his entire body around me in a hug, but who could also throw me down on a bed and ravish me," she writes.
I don't like wearing heels, but one time, i wore these heeled booties on a first date with a guy who said he was 5'5".
Even the girl in the arcade at the bowling alley, who, when 15-year-old me worked up the nerve to ask her out on date, answered, "you're too tall.
Ive also found women who made the first move, either by saying they like me or asking me out, have been much taller than me.
Are your stories of dating taller women, both as a confidence boost and as warnings of what not to do?
Then by the end of the date, when you stand up, you'll know them as a person and not as their height.
In an ideal world, i would date men who are taller than me, but i am definitely not opposed to dating someone my height or a little bit shorter.
It just takes a little adjusting to someone tall, if you're used to dating short people, and vice versa.
Is 5'0", dates mostly men, and finds her small size to be an advantage in a traditional gender binary.
The only women i've met taller than me were cornfed, fat, country girls i wouldn't date anyways.
Goldmysecretpassphrase 14 points15 points16 points 1 year ago(0 children)as a relatively short guy (5'5") i have almost always dated taller girls.
Is 5'0", dates men, and isn't too short to notice when guys add a few inches on dating apps.