My best friend wants to hook up with me

Karen began hooking up with her friend chris last april, who introduced her to a new sexual experience, and eventually, feelings of attachment.

.Whether your friends are weird because the dynamic of your group changed or they just want to push your buttons, be prepared to get the side comment or blatant joke about it.

Other friends told me she had voiced some suspicions, but she never brought it up to me.

My early college years, my best friend and i both got serious boyfriends around the same time.

Friendships and sexual relationships are both challenging on their own, so its best not to combine without careful consideration.

Clare says that despite hooking up with her close friend a few times, they were able to laugh it off because of their strong friendship.

Geoffrey greif, a professor at the university of maryland and author of buddy system: understanding male friendships, says that most romantic couples start as friends first, but its always important to think about how hooking up might negatively affect your friendship.

"this september, i stayed over a guy friend's house after a long night of drinking, even though i knew i had to be up early to go to a football game with friends the next day," said ashley.

"i lied and told him and his friends that i didn't have feelings for him, and that it was strictly business, so to speak," she said.

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Should you do when you findthat sexual tension has somehow sprung up in your friendship with your favorite guy?

.While its important to be aware of some of the negative consequences of hooking up with a friend, you cant worry about everything that could go wrong.

.While you may wish there was a contractstating that you cant be awkward with each other post-hook-up, unfortunately, it can happen.

May make weird or hostile comments, frustrated with his lack of progress, as he perceives you are keeping him in the friend zone through cluelessness or lack of interest.

.Whether you laugh it off or casually hook up more, theres always the chance that you and your friend are totally cool with each other post-hook-up.

Clearly you care about the friendship, so you need to think about how much youre willing to risk when exploring a new dimension of your relationship.

So i spent my days with my best friend and my nights with her boyfriend, and lived as a terrible person for months.

According to gabby*, a senior at the university of delaware, hooking up with a friend might not be a bad idea if you see theres potential for a relationship.

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, i had to tell him that i couldn't keep hooking up with him if the relationship was never going to amount to anything.

Before my husband and i hooked up for the first time, i suddenly pulled back while we were making out and said, wait!

My guess is thatit can work with two friends who share a particular constellation of personality traits (though im not sure what those are).

[hooking up] can be a natural progression to a long-term relationship, but it can also be the basis for misunderstandings and a lost friendship, greif says.

.Theres also a distinct possibility that because youre good friends, you can openly talk about what happened and have it not be weird.

Youve realized that youre physically attracted to your friend, theres always the question if you should actually hook up with him or not.

Youve thought about hooking up with your friend for a while or it spontaneously happens one night, theres a lot that can happen when you take that next step.

I knew she had a history of hooking up with other guys, and that's one of the ways i justified my actions to myself.

In fact, i believe that for most single, straight people a close friendship with a member of the opposite sex is very likely to get complicated.


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For some reason, their sober morning romp wasn't as much fun as their usual alcohol-fueled hookup.

.Because youre already friends, you have a good foundation for a relationship and it could be an easy transition.

"the first time we hooked up, i told him that i had never had an orgasm from having sex, while we were having sex," she said.

[my friend] and i hooked up regularly, so it was chill for a bit, says ralph*, a senior from syracuse university.

Guess you could say im one of those cynics who thinks it is really, really difficult for guys and girls to maintain intimate platonic friendships.

A guy will risk the friendship every time to fulfill the fantasy of having sex with you.

"i started hanging out with him and his friends all the time, and we just kept it going.

"if a potential hook up presents itself in their friendship's future, she isn't turning it down altogether, but definitely won't be sticking around for the morning edition.

.Additionally, dating coach sandra fidelissays, if its a friendship you dont want to lose, take into consideration whether youd be willing not to have it [if] after the hook-up things became weird.

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As if he would magically begin to fail all of his classes and get kicked out of school if he were to become my boyfriend.

Jamie realized that she and her guy friend ben shared similar sexual appetites, she decided that it was worth a shot to invite him to visit her at school to see where the night took them.

First time that steph and her best guy friend moved past their usual pg-13 make out sesh, she learned that mid-blowjob giggles aren't exactly a turn on.

Up with a friend could confirm if you both actually want to become more than friends, something that you may have only realized because you did hook up.

[after hooking up with my friend], i didnt see him or hear from him until i saw him the next week at the bar, and he completely ignored me, says steph*, a senior at notre dame university.

Hooking up happens and theres nothing wrong with it, but its important to know that familiarity plus sex does not always equal love.

Hooking up all the time will only increase this feel-good flood, and the probability of having more feelings than you planned.

There's no shame unless the person you're hooking up with is the one person you shouldn't be.

Of the best parts of a fwb relationship is that anything goes as long as both parties are on the same page.



You love being his friend, but now youre questioning if you want to take it further than that.

Guy friends can often be hypersensitive to you getting attached at all, and misinterpret you popping up as something to do with more than just being friends.

I regret hooking up with him now because we are not nearly as close as we were before we hooked up.

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"we agreed to remain friends, but i wont hook up with him anymore because i'm not about giving myself up to someone who claimed to really like me, but not enough to date me.

This means discussing if you want to tell your other friends, if it was a one-time thing or if you have feelings for each other.

Before doing anything, look at the level of friendship you have and whether you'd be comfortable asserting it with him after the fact.

"he danced to house music in the bars like he was at a ska concert, and was clearly more interested in getting a taste of 'the college experience' that his small university was lacking than hooking up with me.

'm sure there are tons of searchable quotes out there insinuating that the best friendships are the ones that you learn from, but i bet that none of them are referring to circumcision.

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"if neither of us is seeing anyone, we just add hooking up to the mix, because it's easy and fun.

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[after hooking up with my friend,] we were both open and our friendship was strong enough to recognize there was something more between us, says sara, a freshman from unc-chapel hill.

In fact, research shows that the best marriages are those where spouses describe each other as best friends theyre in love with.

It was pretty devastating to me because i feel like he completely disregarded the fact that we were friends and that we could continue being friends without the weirdness.

Cwwith a broken heart, i continued to hang out with my best friend and her boyfriend.

"i had been hooking up with my best friend for about ten months, but the words 'friends with benefits' didn't truly line up for me, because even though i wasn't looking for a relationship, i couldn't help but start to really like him," bree said.

Like having guy friends but i dont really buy that guys put real time and effort into cultivating platonic friendships with women.

Managing an open relationship on top of a friendship is a good way to be a bad friend.


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