Other day, one of my friends texted me and told me she really likes him, and that she loves being close friends with me but she realized she likes him and has no control over it and wanted to let me know.
Best friend is dating my crush, and i have liked this guy for about 4 years, and i have been friends with the girl for 12 years.
What if your best friend is dating your crush
Girl says: My best friend started dating my secret crush and I don't know how to get over him.
Your decision to let this guy go couldnt have been easy, but you chose to do it for a reason.
If your best friend is dating your crush
You dont have to stop being her friend, but avoid hanging out with them as much as you can.
's what to do when your friend starts to like your crush or goes after the boy you like!
As hard as it is to think about, this guy might really like your friend.
Let her know that youre trying to support her, but this is also hard for you.
At this point, telling your friend that youve changed your mind is definitely going to start some sort of problem.
The only way to get those feelings to go away is to make a decision and stick to it and also to give yourself some time.
Can be honest about your feelings if you feel like thats the right thing to do.
Heres the thing: if you decided to forget about this guy and move on, and you told your friend that she could try something with him, then you kind of have to commit to that decision.
I told my closest friends that i decided to stop liking him (can you even do that?
If you decide to tell your friend how you feel about her boyfriend, you risk losing her as a friend and if he rejects your feelings, which he might since he has a girlfriend already, then youre probably going to feel even worse than you do now.