Gut check: just take a minute here to consider your *next* hookup: how can i be better prepared?
It on one too many sex and the city reruns ive been watching lately or the glass of cheap tequila i have in my hand right now, but i think its about time i write some shit down for the sake of men and women who are clueless about what they should be doing post-hookup.
What to do the day after hooking up
He drove me home, we exchanged numbers, and i texted him in an attempt to repeat our hook-up.
Cuddling post-sex should be reserved only for someone you actually have a commitment with, not for hookups.
What to do the day after you hook up
Sometimes they're cute and traditional, like "we met in line at starbucks," but more often than not, couples begin in this gray area: "oh, we hooked up for a few months before i finally had the guts to ask her if she actually liked me or not.
! sometimes, there's a hard crash after the hookup hormones wear off, and your journey out of the clouds ends with a sobering dose of all-of-the-reality-at-once.
Guy who only cares about hooking up wont text you unless you text him first, except when hes horny, of course.
Guy whos all about hooking up will start getting antsy afterwards instead of closeness, youll feel distance.
! it's sooooo messed up, but many girls feel like they've done something really wrong, just because they've hooked up.
Keep in mind that you were two strangers before this whole hookup thing, and life was great before that, so its meant to stay that way.
We'd been friends a while and you seemed open to "hooking up" and i thought, well, if she thinks this is chill then i guess i can be chill too.
A guy who sees you as just a hookup wont really care about what you think or feel.
If you've been acting like you're fine with the hookup, it's now time to start changing your behavior and see if her or she reciprocates.
Most people prefer zero communication right after a hookup, unless theyre really interested in you.