! hopefully hooking up with that person at that time was *your* decision and it feels cool/adult/powerful to be the boss of you!
If you've been acting like you're fine with the hookup, it's now time to start changing your behavior and see if her or she reciprocates.
What to do after you hook up with someone
's something magical about a fresh start in a relationship, whether it's something brand new or just trying to figure out how to turn a hookup into a relationship.
A guy who sees you as just a hookup will make you wonder wtf his deal is.
What to say after you hook up with someone
Keep in mind that you were two strangers before this whole hookup thing, and life was great before that, so its meant to stay that way.
Guy who only cares about hooking up wont text you unless you text him first, except when hes horny, of course.
But if, prior to the hookup, they were just an acquaintance or someone you met from tinder or other online dating app, then stay away (until the next sack session, that is).
. assuming you're sleeping overit takes a big assh*le to kick someone out after a night of drinking, especially if you live across town.
Great sex isn't a reason to get involved in a full-fledged relationship, and the comfort that comes with seeing someone regularly is also not a reason.
Cuddling post-sex should be reserved only for someone you actually have a commitment with, not for hookups.
! sometimes, there's a hard crash after the hookup hormones wear off, and your journey out of the clouds ends with a sobering dose of all-of-the-reality-at-once.
I want to know if i can text someone whenever i want without looking like a stage-five clinger, and i want to know that i don't necessarily need to make weekend plans because i'll be with him.
Guy whos all about hooking up will start getting antsy afterwards instead of closeness, youll feel distance.
It's natural to have some sort of vague expectations for your partner post-hookup, even if you *thought* you were cool with a casual make-out sesh or a fwb situation.