He would tell me he was dating other girls and one time he offered to give me another chance but i didnt respond.
Like how it happens after long periods of no association or someone being in a relationship.
You need to stop trying to rescue the damsel in distress and find someone who is happy and who can make you happy.
I was just someone she thought was better looking then the last guy thats it.
Isnt it possible that she did have a meaningful relationship with you and after the breakup she just found someone more compatible than you?
What im confused about is four days later he had moved on to a new girl and theyre currently dating.
I got a im seeing someone, were done talking, dont ever talk to me again.
Reading a lot of different things last couple months i have started to think that i was just a rebound from the start because she would always say stuff about how she is really attracted to me but nothing else.
After a bout 8 month at sea i find out he is dating someone else i though i was okay with it but when i finish the contract and returned home and started working at my old job where both my ex and his new girlfriend work i feel very sad and heart broken i love him and wish to be back with him he has been dating this girl nearly three month now what should i do.
Seeing your ex dating someone else
She started dating another guy (totally opposite of me ) a couple of weeks after i cut all contact.
Im no psychologist but after coming out of a long term relationship and hurtful breakup with someone with npd, he seems to show a lot of the traits.
Some people keep someone lined up for dating before breaking up just so they dont have to be single for longer than a few days.
I also made it clear to the guy on the first month that we were dating that i can spend time with him late at night only if hes already my boyfriend or were with friends (if were not yet a couple).
Have since learned that she asked a friend of mine if she should tell me about the engagement before i heard it from someone else.
She recently started dating a guy and, via facebook, they were in a relationship after only ten days of knowing each other.
We just one issue which is not having enough time to be together, and were already lucky if we get to spend 2 hours of dating in a day.
But i found out that he was already dating this new girl before i even came back home.
Even though its making me nuts i havent contacted him to ask if hes seeing someone else.
When ex is dating someone else
I asked him how it was going and he said okay, its been a while since ive dated anyone, invalidating the fact that what we did over break wasnt dating.
If they found someone they mash up with better and everything in general about that person is better.
The following day i receive an email from her explaining she didnt feel comfortable talking about it in person, but a month after she broke up with me she started seeing someone and they were going to marry in the fall.
But i am done now this is a degree of disrespect i couldnt even imagine and who knows what else i dont know yet.
I just found out from him today that hes seeing someone and was really surprised as i still think its so soon considering how serious our relationship was.
Someone who will care about you and treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
I did some of the no nosima human being who had his emotions seriously messed withi have since cut all tiesgoing nc as they seem to be more serious and have been dating a few months now.
Its been about a month and i pretty sure they are dating i havent asked cause i am sure he wouldnt want to tell me.
Your ex with someone new is always going to be weird, no matter how shark-infested your island waters, or how long youve left them stranded.
Things were moving forward slowly and a month ago we went to a concert together, which he initiated an where he actually told someone i was his girlfriend.
I resisted the urge to stop walking and be approachable so i pretended to be talking to someone on my mobile phone and ignored him as i kept walking.
Some cases, your ex will choose someone who is completely opposite of you in every possible way.
First month of dating they were already confessing their love on twitter, posting song lyrics to each other and now im confused if this is really love or just a rebound and that i should just go nc to wait it out but at the same time heal.
We didnt talk much after that then all of a sudden, 3 days later, i call her and she says she wants to get close to someone else; the guy shes been texting.
I have a feeling she is and has been seeing someone else even toward the end of our relationship.
He said he was supposed to see someone but he put that off to give me a first chance.
Went through similar situation my partner at the time left me basically to be with someone else he recently phoned saying he wanted to marry me at the same time he was trying to get rid of her it hurt me i couldnt stop brining it up but lately i have stoped begging him or calling him for i shouldnt have to be brave i also joined the gym which help .
They do everything a couple would do together but she just keeps saying she isnt dating.
Four days later i was told by a mutual friend that he was also seeing someone else and had been doing so 2-3 times a week for 2 months!
And after they breakup with you, they start a relationship with someone who has no career and no life goals whatsoever.
So we started dating for another 3 to 4 months again and now she broke up with me again a week ago.
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He is a very honest person and said he started having feelings for someone else, but that he still loved me but it seemed like it was no longer in love, but then he explains that its possible to love to people and describes are love as a garden with many plants and what he feels for this new girl as a single planted seed.
We talked and she said that i was someone special and meant something and that i still mean something to her.
They dont want you to start dating someone else because they are not over you and are hoping you will wait for them to come back.
Then about a 4-6 weeks ago he tells me that he has started seeing someone else and he said he didnt know how serious it was but he didnt want me to be blindsided if we didnt hang out as much.
Broke up and he started dating his co worker, after 3days of the break up.
It shows you that someone close to you can show you love and joy and the feeling of happiness that you might of had with in a relationship.
. he started on a dating site 4 days afte the break up and told me so.
Ever since shes been dating this guy shes been posting pics on various social media and adding comments indicating that they are in love and hes dreamy blah blah blah also, she blocked me on fb when they started dating and then unblocked me.
We later talked in the car where she told me that she was seeing someone but is torn between me and this other guy because im a great guy.
Truly a gut wrenching feeling to think of your ex with someone else, especially if you are still in love with them and want to get them back.
We havent communicated since valentines day and its been a month since theyve started dating and almost 4 months since we broke up.
Up with me for someone else we did have not sex in 6 moths he says im bored never go out and the new guy he like to go out the opposite of me is that a rebound ?
Was dating this lovely woman for a year and half, all around great honeymoon to foundation stages of a relationship.
Just because they have hope that if they go for someone completely different, theyll find happiness.
He called me by the pet name when we were friends, rather than when we were dating.
People go into a rebound deliberately and choose someone completely incompatible with them because they know its a rebound.
I know hes seeing a woman he met -and rejected when we were together, he minimized it and asked me to not tell him if im dating.
It makes me think it is less about her and our relationship and more about something else.
Someone close who you already know and you are already happy being around them before you started a relation ship with them.
Your ex started dating someone else within a week of breaking up, then its more likely to be a rebound.
And during my no contact period my ex was also happy and enjoying with his friends and with the new girl ive heard hes dating based on his posted pictures on fb.
Is it a rebound when your dating close friend you both alrwdy know everything and get along great.
He texted me to meet up with him the other night because he needed someone to talk to.